Thursday, September 8, 2016

better life and health

TIPS FOR A BETTER LIFE AND HEALTH


You probably have heard a hundred times that eating right, exercise, loss weight, stop smoking is good for your health. Let’s look at it in a different way, let’s look at improving or making changes in our lifestyles, let’s add healthy behaviors and we can end up with a better life and health.
  1. Eat Smart. Let’s learn healthy eating habits. Buy a book, go online, ask your Doctor or nutritionist to teach you how to eat healthy. Learn the difference between carbohydrates, fats, fiber, fruits, vegetables, protein, salt or sodium intake. Learn to control or to reduce the portions. We are eating way too much, especially when we go out, the portions are too big. Learn to eat more fruits and vegetables, and reduce your carbohydrates. You don’t need to eliminate all carbohydrates, just eat less and make sure the carbohydrates you eat are high fiber grains. Use low-fat dairy and learn the difference between good and bad fats, use good fats like in fish and nuts. Use lean protein like lean meat, chicken, eggs. Use less salt or sodium. Drink plenty of water, if you drink a glass of water before a meal it will help you to eat less.
  2. Increase Physical Activity. Start slow if you don’t do any physical activity. You can make small changes in your lifestyle to increase your physical activity. Use the stairs, park your car further to walk more, try to walk or use a bicycle for transportation and exercise. The American Heart Association recommends at least 30 minutes of moderate-intensity aerobic activity at least 5 days per week for Overall Cardiovascular Health in Adults. Remember #1 Eat Smart. If we consume less calories and burn more calories we can control or lose weight.
  3. Alcohol in Moderation. Moderate use of alcohol can be beneficial to some people, red wine can have some health benefits. Moderation and changing behaviors are important if alcohol is consumed every day or in excess. If a person cannot slowdown or cannot stop drinking on its own then this person needs to seek professional help.
  4. Quit Smoking. By now everybody knows that smoking is bad for your health. A lot of people still smoke cigarettes today. In 2014, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention stated that an estimated 40 million adults in the United States currently smoke cigarettes.
  5. Adequate Sleep and Rest. We all need good quality and quantity sleep. Please check with your physician if you have problems going to sleep or staying asleep to make sure that you don’t have any medical problems like sleep apnea. If you don’t have any medical problems, we can make changes in our lifestyle to make sure we get a good night sleep. Go to sleep at a regular time, make sure your bedroom is comfortable for sleep; temperature is not too cold or too hot, decrease the noise, dark enough, the bed/mattress is comfortable. Use the bed for sleep or sex only, meaning no food, no pets, no television. Adequate sleep is important for good physical, emotional and psychological health.
  6. Reduce your Stress. Learn relaxation techniques, you can learn formal relaxation techniques with a professional or you can learn on your own. There are several simple activities that can help you relax and forget your stress: go for a walk, get a pet, exercise, take a long bath, use candles, soft music, read a book, arts and crafts, get a hobby, volunteer in your community, watch a movie, laugh/comedies, learn to meditate, learn mindfulness, etc.
  7. Learn to live positive. To learn how to live positive we have to be honest with ourselves. Stop judging, stop living in the past, and live in the present. Learn that if you think positive, if you are honest, kind, generous and friendly, it’s a lot healthier than living negative, angry, jealous and alone, and you will live happier, healthier and longer.

Thursday, December 17, 2015

TIPS FOR IMPROVING YOUR MOOD


Tips for Improving your Mood

1. Exercise
Exercise helps you to feel better and improves your self-esteem. Make some time every day or as often as possible so you can get some exercise.
2. Take the time to do things you enjoy.
Make a list of things you like to do. Call it your “life list.” Then do something from your life list every day. It will brighten your day.
3. Have a Hobby.
Spending time doing something you love to do generates an optimistic feeling and adds excitement to your life.
4. Do things that make you feel good about your appearance.
A new haircut, a new set of clothes, special make-up, and maintaining your physical health can do miracles for your attitude.
5. Spend time with people who make you feel good about yourself and with people who treat you well.
Avoid people who treat you poorly. Almost everybody has a friend that makes them feel good when they are together. Spend more time with them. Then, of course, avoid spending time with those who are destructive and make you feel bad about yourself.
6. Be happy about your environment.
Whether you live in a single room, a small apartment or a large home, make that space comfy and beautiful for you. If you share your living space with others, have some space that is just for you, a place where you can keep your things and know that they will not be disturbed, then decorate it any way you choose.
7. Display items that you find attractive or that remind you of special times or people in your life.
If the cost is a factor, use your creativity to think of inexpensive or free ways that you can add to the comfort and enjoyment of your space.
8. Take opportunities to learn something new or increase your skills.
Take a class or go to a seminar. Many adult education programs are free or very inexpensive.
9. Do things that make you feel better about yourself.
If you keep doing those things that you know will make you feel better about yourself, like going on a diet, beginning an exercise program or keeping your living space clean.
10. Make it a point to treat yourself well every day. 
You will find that you will continue to learn new and better ways to take care of yourself. As you incorporate these changes, your self-esteem will continue to improve.

Tuesday, April 7, 2015


Emotional Trauma’s Surprising Effect on Children

A study, published recently in the Journal of Psychiatric Research, finds that emotional trauma at a young age may cause changes to the brain that are similar to head trauma. The study results suggest a childhood trauma could cause inflammation in the brain that’s similar to what is seen in concussion, this inflammation could linger. This could lead to long-term consequences such as the development of psychiatric disorders later. “Knowing the levels of any biological marker will help us identify patients at higher risk and suggest comprehensive, intensive treatment from the beginning”. A similar study of soldiers who were exposed to intense stress reported similar findings.


Friday, April 3, 2015

Control Your Anger by Managing Your Stress


Control your Anger

There is a myth that anger has to be expressed or else you will explode into a violent rage. The anger will build up like water behind a dam. If you do not express it, then it will come bursting out all at once and destroy everything in the process. Research strongly differs with this myth. The research shows that displaying your anger does not benefit. The more you act angry or think angry thoughts, the more you feel angry. Anger feeds on itself. It never helps to hit walls or pillows or to yell. It just makes you act angrier.
What does anger do to people?
1. Anger stuns and frightens people.
2. It makes people feel bad about them. The more anger you express, the less effectiveness your anger becomes.
3. People distance themselves from you.
4. Anger cuts off from genuine closeness.
5. The more you act aggressively, the more you want to continue the attack and really rub people’s noses in it.
6. Anger causes continued aggression from both parties.
7. It does not stop. It goes on and on, fueling itself in the process.
8. It leads to rigidity. Both parties become stuck and inflexible.
9. It causes the other person to act defensive and resistant.
10. People shield themselves from your anger by avoiding you.
Anger people feel like victims caught in a trap. They desire closeness but have a fear of abandonment. Their friends seem selfish and insensitive, their employers seem cheap and uncaring, and their lovers seem unappreciative and withholding. Life is no fun.
Anger is your choice
You do not have to act angry. You can solve your problems in other ways. Until now, anger has been automatic. It has been a decision made without thinking or a choice made out of habit. You spent years thinking that anger was saving you or helping you while all the time it was hurting you. You want to be loved and accepted. Anger never will get you that. Believe it or not, you can feel angry and act in a way that is not more productive. The function of anger is to stop stress. Your problem is stress, no anger.
Anger helps you to cope with stress in several ways:
1. Anger blocks the awareness of pain.
2. It discharges high levels of fear, hurt, guilt, and sadness.
3. It discharges the pain that develops when your needs are frustrated.
4. It erases the guilt.
5. It places the blame on someone else.
There are many ways of discharging stress other than acting angry. You can cry, exercise, work, make a joke, write in your journal, go through a relaxation exercise, verbalize your feelings, ask for what you want, problem solve, listen music, and many other things.

FULL LIFE


Full Life

If you want a full life, you need to transform your way of living. We present six ways suggested by Sergio Sinay, Gestalt Therapist for a Full Life:
1. All your acts should be based on what you want. Whatever you need. When you want to achieve some goal ask yourself What is the purpose of this goal in my life? Does this goal help me to live in a state of fullness, according to my actual needs, beliefs, priorities and values?
2. Your decisions and actions should respond to a life that allows you to live a life with meaning and purpose. And that this project meets your values, beliefs, intuition and inner voice. Later on, you will enjoy your journey through life.
3. Do not propose your achievements based on the experiences and expectations of others, without any purpose or personal meaning. Doing so may lead you to an unfulfilled and unhappy life.
4. Learn and practice a life of significance and do not confuse being happy with accomplishments or material or superficial possessions only. You could get hurt and frustrated.
5. Give a personal sense to who you are, your life, what you do and what you decide at any time.
6. Reflect on the actions that you perform daily. Be responsible and commit to the achievement.

Tuesday, March 31, 2015

Traumatic Incident Reduction (TIR)


Traumatic Incident Reduction (TIR)

Traumatic Incident Reduction (TIR) is a powerful tool for use in the rapid and successful resolution of virtually any trauma-related condition. TIR has also been successful in treating specific phobias, depression, and anxiety, as well as other unwanted feelings. Please contact us for more information and to learn how you can benefit from this technique. Visit: http://www.mindfuljourneycenter.com/traumatic-incident-reduction/

Friday, March 20, 2015

The Irrationality of Alcoholics Anonymous


The Irrationality of Alcoholics Anonymous

Alcoholics Anonymous was established in 1935, when knowledge of the brain was in its infancy. It offers a single path to recovery: lifelong abstinence from alcohol. The debate over the efficacy of 12-step programs has been quietly bubbling for decades among addiction specialists, researchers have debunked central tenets of AA doctrine and found dozens of other treatments more effective. It has taken on new urgency with the passage of the Affordable Care Act, which requires all insurers and state Medicaid programs to pay for alcohol- and substance-abuse treatment. The 12 steps are so deeply ingrained in the United States that many people, including doctors and therapists, believe attending meetings, earning one’s sobriety chips, surrender their ego, accept that they are “powerless” over booze, never taking another sip of alcohol, make amends to those they’ve wronged, and pray is the only way to get better.