Relax and soothe yourself
Learning to relax and soothe yourself is very important for
many reasons. When you are relaxed, your body feels better. It also functions
in a healthy way. In a state of relaxation, your heart beats more slowly and
your blood pressure is reduced. Your body is no longer in a state of constant emergency,
preparing to either confront a stressful situation or run away from it. As a
result, it is easier for your brain to think of healthier ways to cope with
your problems.
Included here are some simple relaxations and soothing
activities that are meant to bring you a small amount of peace in your life.
1.
Burn scented candles or incense in you room.
2.
Find a place that is soothing for you to look
at, like a park or a museum.
3.
Carry a picture of someone you love.
4.
Listen to music.
5.
Listen to recording of a relaxation exercise.
6.
Listen to a recording of nature sounds, such as
birds or another wildlife.
7.
Practice deep breath.
8.
Pray.
9.
Practice Dancing
Mindfulness.
10.
Carry gum, chocolate or another candy with you
to eat when you are feeling upset.
If some of this activities doesn’t help you feel relaxed, or
makes you feel worse, don’t do it. Try something else. And remember, each one
of us id different. As you explore this
list, think about what works best for you and be willing to try something new
if it sounds exciting.